You Can Live A

Joy-Filled Life 

Reclaim Who God Truly Created You to Be and Live the Life He Purposed for You. A Life You Love!

As seen on:

A Life You Love Is Key

Do you crave happiness and purpose but struggle with self-identity, people-pleasing, and needing validation from others?


Whether you are an empty-nester or a successful professional, you may feel unfulfilled and lost on the inside. But there is hope. You can align the two with a life of purpose and fulfillment—a life you love and no longer search for or feel the need to escape.


You're not alone. I've been in your shoes, faced similar challenges, and I'm here to guide you through them.

It's Time To Take The First Step To A Life You Truly Love.

Hey, I'm Lori!

I work with women, especially empty nesters and successful professionals, to reclaim their true selves by knowing and loving who God created them to be. We so ofter lose ourselves in the "ands" and "demands" of life. My journey began a few years ago when I realized how much I was neglecting self-love. I was on auto-pilot, wearing a mask, thinking I had it all, but inside, I was deeply unhappy, dark, and lonely. 


It wasn’t until someone held a mirror up to my life that I woke up. Despite having everything I thought I wanted, I was unfulfilled. Learning to love myself through God’s eyes broke the mold and allowed me to become my most authentic self.


Let’s work together to discover the joy-filled life you deserve. You can find freedom, peace, and genuine happiness, no matter what’s happening around you.

You Can (And Deserve) to Be Happy

Listen, sis, I've been there. I see you and I know what you're going through. Let me know if this sounds familiar: you tend to your husband, to your kids, to your family, to your community, but can't find any time for yourself. You've got the equation backwards: we need to fill our cups first in order to not only be the best wife, mom, etc. but find our own happiness. Sometimes you just need someone to help you see this and rework where you distribute the love in your heart...

introducing...

The Refinery

a path that leads to a life you love of purpose, rest, and joy.

Welcome to The Refinery, a transformative way of life designed to help you reconnect with your true self and embrace the person God created you to be. You'll begin a journey of self-discovery and renewal through immersive experiences, practical workshops, and intimate discussions.

At The Refinery, you'll learn to:


Recognize the True Vine and deepen your faith.


Embrace the Pruning and Purpose to uncover your true calling.


Live Fruitfully through abiding in His love.


Cultivate Intentional Relationships and Intimate Living.


Commit to Sustained Growth by Now Remaining.


Find Joyful Obedience in God's will.


By choosing The Refinery, you're not just taking a different path, you're embarking on a journey that leads to a life of purpose, rest, and joy. Yes, the journey may be challenging, but every step is worth it. Invest in yourself and unlock the fulfillment that awaits you.

Order My Best-Selling Book Burning Hope

Burning Hope tells the love story of Gabby and Griffin, complete with all the twists and turns that threatened to take them away from each other and God. As their story shows, we all long for love. We can all feel abandoned, ashamed and full of despair. And we all can get entangled in worldly pleasures when walking between the twin flames of romance and faith.

Learn From Lori Through the Get Your Rear in Gear Podcast

Do you feel like you're on the continual merry-go-round of life and not fully tapping into your potential or often pondering your life's path or purpose and where you fit in? If so, you've come to the right place! Welcome to my podcast, Get Your Rear in Gear with Lori, your go-to show for embracing your true self and leading a purposeful life. I'm Lori McAfee—your friend, wife, mom, Mimi, life coach, speaker, and author. With a multifaceted background and an approach grounded in faith and real-world experience, I aim to provide a sanctuary where we dive deep into the issues that matter most—whether it's finding your true purpose, navigating life's twist and turns, or breaking through personal limitations to unlock your full potential, we cover it all. Please tune in, subscribe to the show, and let's truly get our rear in gear!

Inspired by the powerful imagery of John 15:1-17, describing Jesus as the True Vine and God as the gardener who prunes us to be more fruitful, the workbook follows the signature R.E.F.I.N.E. method, a transformative process aimed at identifying and eliminating spiritual impurities that hinder our walk with God.

Happiness is an Inside-Out Job

You deserve to be happy, but if you've never been taught how to you're going up an uphill battle. It's time you start feeling worthy and enough in your life. The time is now, how much longer can you live like this? It's time you start living (and loving) your life!

You Can Live a Joy-Filled Life 

Reclaim Who God Truly Created You to Be and Live the Life He Purposed for You. A Life You Love!

As seen on:

A Life You Love Is Key

Do you crave happiness and purpose but struggle with self-identity, people-pleasing, and needing validation from others?


Whether you are an empty-nester or a successful professional, you may feel unfulfilled and lost on the inside. But there is hope. You can align the two with a life of purpose and fulfillment—a life you love and no longer search for or feel the need to escape.


You're not alone. I've been in your shoes, faced similar challenges, and I'm here to guide you through them.

It's Time To Take The First Step To A Life You Truly Love.

Hey, I'm Lori!

I work with women, especially empty nesters and successful professionals, to reclaim their true selves by knowing and loving who God created them to be. We so ofter lose ourselves in the "ands" and "demands" of life. My journey began a few years ago when I realized how much I was neglecting self-love. I was on auto-pilot, wearing a mask, thinking I had it all, but inside, I was deeply unhappy, dark, and lonely. 


It wasn’t until someone held a mirror up to my life that I woke up. Despite having everything I thought I wanted, I was unfulfilled. Learning to love myself through God’s eyes broke the mold and allowed me to become my most authentic self.


Let’s work together to discover the joy-filled life you deserve. You can find freedom, peace, and genuine happiness, no matter what’s happening around you.

You Can (And Deserve) to Be Happy

Listen, sis, I've been there. I see you and I know what you're going through. Let me know if this sounds familiar: you tend to your husband, to your kids, to your family, to your community, but can't find any time for yourself. You've got the equation backwards: we need to fill our cups first in order to not only be the best wife, mom, etc. but find our own happiness. Sometimes you just need someone to help you see this and rework where you distribute the love in your heart...

introducing...

The Refinery

a path that leads to a life you love of purpose, rest, and joy.

Welcome to The Refinery, a transformative way of life designed to help you reconnect with your true self and embrace the person God created you to be. You'll begin a journey of self-discovery and renewal through immersive experiences, practical workshops, and intimate discussions.

At The Refinery, you'll learn to:


Recognize the True Vine and deepen your faith.


Embrace the Pruning and Purpose to uncover your true calling.


Live Fruitfully through abiding in His love.


Cultivate Intentional Relationships and Intimate Living.


Commit to Sustained Growth by Now Remaining.


Find Joyful Obedience in God's will.


By choosing The Refinery, you're not just taking a different path, you're embarking on a journey that leads to a life of purpose, rest, and joy. Yes, the journey may be challenging, but every step is worth it. Invest in yourself and unlock the fulfillment that awaits you.

Inspired by the powerful imagery of John 15:1-17, describing Jesus as the True Vine and God as the gardener who prunes us to be more fruitful, the workbook follows the signature R.E.F.I.N.E. method, a transformative process aimed at identifying and eliminating spiritual impurities that hinder our walk with God.

Order My Best-Selling Book Burning Hope

Burning Hope tells the love story of Gabby and Griffin, complete with all the twists and turns that threatened to take them away from each other and God. As their story shows, we all long for love. We can all feel abandoned, ashamed and full of despair. And we all can get entangled in worldly pleasures when walking between the twin flames of romance and faith.

Learn From Lori Through the Get Your Rear in Gear Podcast

Do you feel like you're on the continual merry-go-round of life and not fully tapping into your potential or often pondering your life's path or purpose and where you fit in? If so, you've come to the right place! Welcome to my podcast, Get Your Rear in Gear with Lori, your go-to show for embracing your true self and leading a purposeful life. I'm Lori McAfee—your friend, wife, mom, Mimi, life coach, speaker, and author. With a multifaceted background and an approach grounded in faith and real-world experience, I aim to provide a sanctuary where we dive deep into the issues that matter most—whether it's finding your true purpose, navigating life's twist and turns, or breaking through personal limitations to unlock your full potential, we cover it all. Please tune in, subscribe to the show, and let's truly get our rear in gear!

Happiness is an Inside-Out Job

You deserve to be happy, but if you've never been taught how to you're going up an uphill battle. It's time you start feeling worthy and enough in your life. The time is now, how much longer can you live like this? It's time you start living (and loving) your life!

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©2024 Lori McAfee Coaching. Built by Isaac Hemingway.

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